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How to Tell The Girl Who Gave Herpes to You?

The herpes simplex virus is generally diagnosed through a physical exam wherein your doctor will check for sores within your body. You will typically be asked about your current symptoms. If sores have developed on your genitals, HSV testing, blood test, DNA test, or herpes culture might then be requested to confirm the diagnosis. A swab sample of fluid from the skin sore or lesion is collected then sent to the laboratory for testing, to determine if it does contain HSV. The moment of truth will arrive in about a week’s time with results already available.

If the condition confirmed and you are faced with the inevitable, it’s natural to be overwhelmed with a mix of emotions. You are angry you want to scream and go into a rage. You want nothing else but to confront and blame your girlfriend, or maybe ex about what happened to you. Before you go into that. Give her the benefit of the doubt and hold your horses. What if she honestly did not have any idea, and you do have that one woman or girl in your life who loves you more than anything in the world?

Another thing, the virus can remain dormant from a few days to a couple of weeks, to months and even years after you have become infected. This means even you might have passed it along the way if you’ve had another partner or had contact with someone else. It’s a sad truth that many people are actually not aware that they have herpes, for it’s quite common that it produces no signs and symptoms, or can be very mild and do not have an impact at all. This means that they can be unknowingly passing it along, which in this case, is even more unfortunate since it’s you whom it was given to. Worse, you are experiencing an outbreak of the virus and its prominent symptoms which you simply can’t ignore!

By now, the effort of educating yourself firsthand in reading this helpful advice for men dealing with the same problem, and the courage of going through a herpes test makes you a real man! So, all that’s left is to think everything over very carefully and ultimately talk about it, for she deserves to know. Do it in person and only attempt if you think you can handle it by staying mature. Be factual by stating what you have observed and how you think you got it, and why it must be from her, while doing your best with all your might not to point fingers and blame or judge your girlfriend or your ex. You will want to suggest to her that she go see a doctor and have a test performed to help her out. This works best for everyone- hers and yours, and maybe future boyfriend’s sake.

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